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Friday, March 26, 2010

Virginity,Premarital Sex,Live In

For the past two days everyone seems to be shocked at Supreme Court's observation that premarital sex and live in are not offences in relation with the case which involves actor Khushboo's remarks on the same. As I go through the report I found it very funny the way the complainants were asked by court like after the remarks were
made any of their daughters had eloped with anyone since they claimed that the interview had an adversary effect on their families. And confirming that its just a person's view nothing more than that SC continued with other issues which really makes sense.A lot of letters, tweets and other stuff came out condemning SC's observation. Everyone was so worried about what would happen to our moral values and ethics which we boast to hold on.This is one face of modern India.

Now the next, I came through this report in Indian Express yeserday,of which the headline was something like this,"The virginial tests are increasing in India". And the report goes on like this. The hospitals are doing a lot of virginial surgery to restore the hymen in women which might have ruptured because of premarital sex though always not necessarily its the reason, like, those who do rigoruos physical excercises,dancers, athletes all may have this problem. But the doctors confirms that the majority who undergo this cosmetic surgery comes in the former section than in the latter. Those who do are of between twenty to thirty years of age.And the reason what they are giving is that although they don't care much about virginity and all, their parents are traditional and the guy who is going to marry will expect a virgin bride irrespective of how modern he is.The doctors say that there are no side effects for this surgery. the cost of it depends upon where you undergo like if it is a public hospital it will come around 15k to 20k whereas if it is done in a private it will cost you 50k to 70k. Still the numebr is ever increasing the report says.This is another face of modern India.

Now where we are heading to between all these hypocrisies? Having a generation who still hold to conservative values which always need not be right while boasting of western cullture and development over there and having another generation who tries to emulate western culture but with a society who will never accept and sandwiched more than that a lot confused.

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